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rachel willis's avatar

I think there is a specific culture or penchant for 'naming and shaming' in the UK that is designed to make people feel safe. I think it was brought about by a couple of tabloids and is influencing local culture, workplaces, schools,

neighbourhoods in symbiosis. When I studied 'Pride and Prejudice' we learned about the function of 'free indirect

speech' which is basically talking about you not to you, and is a very powerful tool in profiling and shaming. What's not more British than that. Lol.

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In the UK, bullying is defined as "The repetitive, intentional hurting of one person or group by another person or group, where the relationship involves an imbalance of power. Bullying can be physical, verbal or psychological. It can happen face-to-face or online." Shame, on the other hand, is "A feeling of embarrassment or humiliation that arises from the perception of having done something dishonorable, immoral, or improper." Bullying can cause shame but it isn't the same thing. Let's call bullying what it is, and not invalidate people's lived experiences by saying it isn't bullying unless it's physical. That's like saying it isn't sexual harassment if you weren't touched.

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